when is enough communication too much?

Back in the 80s and 90s the only way for a person to connect with another person was either over the phone or sending

letters

This was a time before cellphones even hit the market before computer became a must have appliance in daily life,

communication was kept to a simple form you either used a phone at home



or in some cases if you were out in the streets and needed to connect wit some one some 25 cents did the trick on this

thing (does anybody remember using these things?)





But then something happened, the explosion of technology! and the world as we knew changed for ever. With the invention of

the first cellphone



To this day i cant figure out how people used to walk around with this large ass remote control looking phone.


As years would pass by new forms of communication would evolve with the invention of the the online media, we would

witness a change of communication that would shape the world as we know it.

The WWW. era would be sprung upon us and websites such as Myspace, Facebook, Twitter









And my favorite new edition to the communication pool is text messenger but one particular one is the Black Berry

Messenger which if not used correctly can become addictive.




With all of these new forms of communication we have to ask our self's are we doing too much? really why do i have to have a facebook, myspace, twittter, BBM?

Is it all just too much just to keep up with people on a regular basis?

And the answer (in my opinion) Yes! it is all too much, so why do we do it then if its all too much?

The answer is simple...it's addictive!

With all of these forms of communication, i can only wonder what awaits us in the future.


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Drunk In the Club

Everybody who's ever been out to a club on a Thursday, Friday, Saturday or even a Sunday night (still can't figure out how people

go clubbing on a Sunday night) have all had their drunk in the club experience after one too many cups or bottles of brown juice or

light juice(that's dark liquor or light liquor)

These type of experiences include those of having a person spill their drink on you, your drink being knocked out of hand by

another drunk person and my favorite one of them all Is making out with the ugliest person in the club I've both been a victim as

well as a witness, oh wait of course i cant forget the usual misunderstanding and occasional fight.

I recently went out to the club on Saturday night, i was intentionally going to M2 ultra lounge until they started talking some

guest list only shit...yeah i winded up going down the block to another club called prominant its right next to the shadow night

club. long story made short I had a great time!

The crowed was a nice mature crowed the place wasn't over crowded or anything like that, some where after the light juice

and shot of patron i was drunk out of my mind and i started to notice things (for some reason i seem to notice a lot more

when I'm drunk than when I'm sober).

One of the things that i noticed was that all drunk people know who's sober and who's drunk in the club for some reason

second thing i notice and that being drunk in the club and trying to mack to a girl for some reason turn into a confessional

i don't know why this happens it just does,

I start talking to this fine ass shorty and long story made short shes talking about having a eight year old daughter and how

shes in school and how her daughter like this type of name brand clothes etc...

Just great a confessional that I did not need to hear under the influence of light juice and patron, so i said to the lady

"look I'm trying to get with you not your daughter!" long story made short..i don't think I'll be talkin to her again.

Inconclusion we've all had our drunk in the club experiances, some where good and some where bad either way its always

winded up as one for the memories books.

Tyler Perry

This guy tyler perry is really doin the damn thing, got a two tv shows on T.V (house of payne and meet the browns) movies

coming out for what seem like every month and recently just stared wrote produced and directed his latest movie

"why did I get married 2" which i must say is good, if u havent seen that movie yet go check it out.

As a writer my self i find it difficult in these days of mordern technology to even focus on one thing at a time, how this guy

manages to write for all these shows and movies and still get the time and enegery to produce all these things is just amazing.

One day when my time comes I hope i get to read somebody elses blog about me writining and producing and directing my own shows and movies.

how the times have changed

On april 23rd i will be attending my 9 year high school reunion, some times i find it hard to believe that its been 9 years since i was in High School. i think back to those years when i was a teenager and life seem so free flowing, no bills to pay no worries about anything except when the next party is.

I've seen so much happen before my eyes in those 9 years I've watched so many people and friends come and go in my life and I've watched my self grow physically as well as mentally (if only i knew the things then that i know now)

while i wasn't Mr popular in high school i was well known for my in class outburst as well as my involvement in various clubs
sometimes i wish i could have done more than i actually did, but hey we cant turn back the hands of time right?

however i am looking forward to seeing many of my old high school classmates that i have and haven't been able to keep up with on twitter or face book

I wonder if i'll see that damn girl that broke my damn heart my sophomore year? the same year and moment that i discoverd my passion for writing.

With that said I hope you readers enjoy my blog of thought ideas and humor

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